Proactive Communication
Frustration often arises when expectations aren't met in team dynamics. It's crucial to address any lack of proactivity early on, as it can save time and energy in the long run. Open conversations about performance can lead to improvement, but it's essential to observe whether progress is made to avoid falling into the sunk cost fallacy.In this clip
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