Overcoming Fear of Disapproval
Krista discusses the challenge of not caring about others' opinions and the dismissive nature of "stop taking it personally." She emphasizes the importance of acknowledging our feelings and moving towards right relationship, considering our childhood experiences of being labeled as "bad" for making mistakes.In this clip
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607. How to Stop Caring About What Others Think
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What does it mean when you realize you may have been making a mistake or taken criticism in a negative or defensive way on a project, as discussed in the episode 466: How to Cope with a Dying, Narcissistic Parent | Feedback Friday and the clip Getting What You Deserve? I'm feeling frustrated because I thought I showed myself okay, but it could have still been perceived differently. I'm also annoyed because, while I was responsive and thankful, I felt dismissed by a manager who often asserts herself in the middle of presentations without letting me continue. This makes it very different from my interactions with everyone else, who love me, and I love them. I'm going to change how I've been acting, but will this change help her loosen her resistance too? Despite getting a return offer, I'm feeling like I've had a negative impression on everyone and done a horrible job this summer. What is this feeling?
What does it mean when you realize you may have been making a mistake or taken criticism in a negative or defensive way on a project, as discussed in the episode 466: How to Cope with a Dying, Narcissistic Parent | Feedback Friday and the clip Getting What You Deserve? I'm feeling frustrated because I thought I showed myself okay, but it could have still been perceived differently. I'm also annoyed because, while I was responsive and thankful, I felt dismissed by a manager who often asserts herself in the middle of presentations without letting me continue. This makes it very different from my interactions with everyone else, who love me, and I love them. I'm going to change how I've been acting, but will this change help her loosen her resistance too? Despite getting a return offer, I'm feeling like I've had a negative impression on everyone and done a horrible job this summer. What is this feeling?
I'm feeling frustrated because I thought I showed myself okay, but it could have still been perceived differently. I'm also annoyed because, while I was responsive and thankful, I felt dismissed by a manager who often asserts herself in the middle of presentations without letting me continue. This makes it very different from my interactions with everyone else, who love me, and I love them.