650. How to Approach Modern Dating As a Spiritual Person

Overcoming Expectations

Krista Williams shares her journey of overcoming societal expectations and personal lists in dating. She emphasizes the importance of allowing people to present themselves authentically, rather than imposing a checklist of traits they must meet. This approach fosters genuine connections, as she explains, "I really want people to show up as they are so that I can see them as they are" 1. Krista also highlights the significance of mental stimulation over mere chemistry, advocating for relationships where both partners feel comfortable and engaged 2.

   

Being True to Self

In her dating experiences, Krista stresses the importance of staying true to oneself and not compromising authenticity for the sake of others. She reflects on moments where she held back her true self for the comfort of her date, realizing the need to express her genuine thoughts and emotions 3. Krista is determined to maintain her voice and authenticity, even if it means being perceived as "too much." She states, "I'm going to go into dating and be who I am as the too much person" 3. This commitment to self-authenticity is crucial in her healing journey and future relationships 4.

   

Intentional Dating

Krista approaches dating with intentionality, setting clear intentions for each experience. She describes how setting intentions, whether consciously or intuitively, helps her cultivate desired experiences and connections 5. Krista's focus is on experiencing life and the masculine energy in diverse ways, rather than seeking a perfect partner immediately. She shares, "I want to desire and feel desired," highlighting the joy and playfulness she seeks in her dating life 6. This intentional approach allows her to explore her desires while remaining true to herself.