#282: How a Man Develops His Sense of Style

Father's Role

Fathers play a significant role in shaping their sons' sense of style. Brett McKay and David Coggins discuss how men often find themselves adopting their fathers' fashion choices as they grow older, despite initial resistance during their teenage years 1. This influence is evident in the way men perceive their fathers' style decisions over time, transitioning from rebellion to appreciation.

Sometimes you learn something from your dad, and you kind of, you take it too far, maybe. And maybe I did take it a little too far because I'm, you know, I do like to wear a sport coat and a tie most days.

--- David Coggins

The podcast also highlights how seeing old photos of their fathers can provide a broader perspective on their style choices 2.

   

Geographical Impact

Living in different cities or countries significantly influences one's sense of style. David Coggins notes that men from New York and London often have distinct fashion journeys compared to those from smaller towns 3. Magazines like Esquire and GQ played a crucial role in shaping their tastes before the internet era.

Magazines viewed their mission differently; they were kind of an arbiter of taste and took that seriously. And I miss those days personally.

--- David Coggins

This geographical impact is evident in the way men adapt their style based on their environment and available resources.

   

External Influences

External factors like magazines and school uniforms also shape one's style. David Coggins explains how magazines were once pivotal in defining men's fashion, serving as cultural arbiters 3. Additionally, school uniforms can have a lasting impact, simplifying early fashion choices but also instilling a sense of style regulation.

It was interesting to hear just how intense and finely regulated those uniforms were. And I think some people that they said they didn't like it at the time, but in retrospect, it kind of meant they didn't have to make these intense decisions.

--- David Coggins

These influences collectively contribute to the development of a man's personal style over time 2.