Published Mar 7, 2018

AMP #141 Tim Kennedy on the Hero who Lives Within Us All

Tim Kennedy, a decorated Green Beret and former UFC fighter, joins Aubrey Marcus to discuss modern masculinity, leadership, and the hero within us all, emphasizing responsibility, making impactful decisions, and overcoming challenges.
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  • Fear

    opens up about the pervasive nature of fear and its impact on individuals and teams. He describes how fear can be contagious, affecting entire units and leading to a focus on avoiding failure rather than striving for excellence 1. Tim emphasizes the importance of pushing through fear and giving one's best effort, regardless of the outcome.

    Fear is a bitch. It is the bitch. It is the bitch. When you boil everything down. Like, that's the virus. That's the thing that infects us all.

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    He also contrasts the fear experienced in sports with the higher stakes in combat, highlighting the different ways fear manifests in these environments 2.

       

    Failure

    Learning from failure is a critical theme in Tim's narrative. He explains the concept of After Action Reviews (AARs), where every aspect of a mission is scrutinized to identify what went well and what needs improvement 3. This rigorous process is essential for growth and survival in high-stakes situations.

    Failure is a myth. Failure is in your own mind. Failure is in your own body. Failure is in your own muscles.

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    Tim redefines failure as a necessary step towards success, using examples from sports legends to illustrate how repeated failures can lead to greatness 4.

       

    Purpose

    Finding purpose is another key aspect of Tim's philosophy. He shares stories of individuals who have discovered their life's mission and the profound sense of fulfillment it brings 5. Tim believes that understanding one's purpose can transform every action into a step towards a greater goal.

    My purpose is to find dirt bags and either bury them or fuck them up. And I'm going to do that till I'm like, 95.

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    He also discusses the power of small, positive choices in creating momentum towards achieving one's mission, emphasizing that anyone can change their trajectory at any moment 6.

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