changing my lens, a talk with emma

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Life Lenses
introduces the metaphor of lenses to describe how we perceive life. She emphasizes the importance of maintaining a positive and accurate lens to enhance our quality of life. Emma acknowledges that while it seems obvious, neglecting this perspective can subtly degrade our experiences.
It's not like looking at life through good lenses means that there are no struggles, there are no challenges, there are no bad things.
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She believes that being aware of our lenses can empower us to see opportunities even in challenging situations 1 2.
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Perspective Shifts
Emma shares personal stories about how shifting her perspective has improved her life. She realized that her negative view of Los Angeles was based on initial bad experiences and a fixed mindset. By adopting a more positive lens, she began to appreciate the city's beauty and opportunities.
I had a few bad experiences when I first moved here, and I didn't get into the swing of things very quickly.
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Emma encourages others to reassess their perspectives to avoid taking good things for granted 3 4.
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Influence of Relationships
Relationships and surroundings significantly influence our lenses, according to Emma. She notes that being close to someone with a negative outlook can darken one's own perspective. Conversely, positive influences can enhance our view of the world.
If the people around you have a shitty lens, I can almost guarantee your lens will begin to suck too.
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Emma stresses the importance of surrounding oneself with people who maintain a healthy, balanced lens to foster a more positive life experience 5 6.
