My Top Tips for 69ing & Oral Sex

Position Variations

Emily Morse explores the nuances of the 69 position, emphasizing comfort and mutual pleasure. She introduces the Sideways 69, a variation that allows partners to lie on their sides, reducing physical strain and accommodating height differences. This position can also enhance the experience by incorporating edging, a technique where partners bring each other close to orgasm and then pull back, intensifying the eventual climax 1.

If you reframe 69ing as a position with mutual pleasure, there's a lot of different ways to go about it.

--- Emily Morse

Additionally, Emily discusses the Power 69, where the partner on top controls the depth of contact, similar to face sitting, but with more stability and comfort 1. She also highlights the importance of using hands during oral sex to enhance pleasure, suggesting that blowjobs are not solely about the mouth 2.

   

Personal Experiences

Emily shares her personal journey with 69ing, admitting initial reluctance due to the challenge of balancing giving and receiving pleasure simultaneously. However, she found that modifying the approach can make it more enjoyable, as it introduces novelty and variety into the sexual routine 3.

I was never a huge fan of 69 until I learned to modify it.

--- Emily Morse

A listener's unique experience with ear play during 69ing is also highlighted, showcasing how personal preferences can lead to unexpected pleasures. This listener discovered that incorporating her partner's penis around her ear was intensely stimulating, leading to immediate orgasms 4. Emily reassures listeners that exploring such preferences is normal and can enhance intimacy when both partners are open and non-judgmental.