Published Aug 7, 2023

Why we broke up - the breakup that changed me forever

Lyss Boss delves into a formative breakup that was profoundly shaped by love and religious differences, exploring how this and an intense pandemic relationship led to significant personal growth amid the eerie emptiness of quarantine life.
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  • Love vs. Beliefs

    shares the intense love story that was overshadowed by conflicting religious beliefs. Despite their deep connection, the relationship faced insurmountable challenges due to the need for her to convert to a religion that wouldn't accept her conversion. Lyss reflects on the complexity of their situation, stating, "It was the best relationship in the world because we loved each other so much," yet the religious divide made it impossible to sustain 1. The couple's love was undeniable, but the cultural and religious barriers proved too significant to overcome 2.

       

    Healing Journey

    The breakup led Lyss on a profound journey of healing and self-discovery. She describes the mutual respect and love that made the separation even more painful, emphasizing how difficult it was to let go of someone she respected deeply 3. A pivotal moment in her healing was a retreat in Tulum, where she engaged in a transformative spiritual experience that inspired her podcast, "Date Yourself Instead." Lyss explains, "I cleared out a lot of trauma and sadness from my body with this woman while I was in Tulum," which helped her find peace and purpose 3. This journey taught her the importance of surrendering to circumstances beyond her control, ultimately leading to personal growth and emotional resilience 4.

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