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Published Aug 21, 2023

He's just not that into you

Lyss Boss delves into the complexities of recognizing a partner's lack of commitment, spotlighting red flags like commitment avoidance and indifferent reactions. Through personal stories, she emphasizes the importance of identifying disinterest early, empowering listeners to choose themselves and navigate towards healthier relationships.
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  • Breaking Free

    Recognizing repetitive patterns in relationships is crucial for personal growth. shares a story of a woman whose husband left her, only to want her back after she moved on. Lyss advises against returning to such cycles unless significant personal change occurs. She emphasizes the importance of choosing oneself and believing in deserving better, stating, "You have to believe that you deserve better, and you have to be brave enough to let the things go that are holding you back from receiving better." 1 2

       

    Hot and Cold Behaviors

    Inconsistent behaviors can create significant relational uncertainty. recounts stories of individuals experiencing hot and cold dynamics, where partners oscillate between engagement and withdrawal. One example involves a man who, despite claiming he needed space, continued to see his ex, creating confusion and emotional turmoil. Lyss highlights the absurdity of such excuses, questioning why external issues, like family problems, should impact a relationship: "Why would his mom play into him dating you? It doesn't make any sense." 3

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