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Published Oct 2, 2023

If you can't match my energy, BYEEE (masculine vs. feminine energy)

Lyss Boss delves into the transformative power of forgiveness and communication in relationships, highlighting the importance of matching energies and balancing masculine and feminine dynamics for personal and relational well-being. Through personal stories and insights, she emphasizes setting boundaries, recognizing manipulation, and embracing self-care practices to enhance emotional and mental health.
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  • Energy Matching

    emphasizes the significance of matching energy in relationships, highlighting how it ensures compatibility and harmony. She shares her personal experiences of giving too much energy to those who didn't reciprocate, leading to confusion and dissatisfaction 1. Lyss believes that communication is crucial, especially in the early stages of dating, and if someone can go 48 hours without replying, it indicates a lack of priority 2.

    Everyone wants to feel wanted and liked and appreciated to some extent when you're getting to know someone.

    stresses that if someone isn't willing to put in the effort to make things right, they don't truly care 1.

       

    Aligning Actions

    Expectations and actions must align in relationships, according to . She discusses how small gestures, like a morning text, can make a significant impact, reflecting care and attention 3. Lyss shares a story of a past relationship where her partner consistently initiated contact, making her feel valued and appreciated 4.

    That's a masculine thing. And you could be in your feminine because you're receiving something so special.

    She warns against feeling guilty for not initiating contact, as it can lead to manipulation and control 5.

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