Finding Closure Within
Relying on someone who has hurt you for closure is often misguided, as their actions may reveal a lack of emotional maturity. Instead of seeking answers from them, recognize that they may not have the capacity to provide the clarity you need. Life is too short to wait for apologies; true healing comes from within.In this clip
From this podcast
The Psychology of your 20s
168. Do you really need closure?
Related Questions
If you experienced an intense yet peaceful connection with someone who shut down after a first conflict due to severe past trauma and decided to run away, should you continue to pursue them and tell them you can be there for them, or should you let them go completely, knowing in your heart that they are most likely self-sabotaging or avoiding a deep-rooted issue?
How can I cope with the feelings for someone who has broken off from me?
If you experienced an intense yet peaceful connection with someone in a short time, but they shut down after a first conflict due to severe past trauma and decided to run away, do you continue to pursue them and tell them you can be there for them, or let them go completely, knowing in your heart that they are most likely self-sabotaging or avoiding a deep-rooted issue? They went completely silent for three days, not answering your messages or calls. When they finally called you, they explained what happened and apologized for how they handled it but said they were not in the right headspace to continue and wanted to detach themselves from you. What should you do in this situation?