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Published May 4, 2020

Mini-Ep 105: Hand Creams and Career Dreams

Doree Shafrir and Kate Spencer delve into the fluid nature of career satisfaction, sharing personal and listener stories, while also exploring nostalgic memories tied to Crabtree and Evelyn and navigating complex in-law and friendship dynamics during the pandemic.
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  • In-Law Dynamics

    Navigating in-law dynamics during the pandemic presents unique challenges, especially when differing views on safety measures arise. and discuss a listener's struggle with in-laws who disregard COVID-19 guidelines, exacerbating the listener's anxiety and frustration 1. Kate emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries to protect one's well-being, acknowledging the difficulty of controlling others' actions 2.

    You cannot control their behavior. And it doesn't mean you have to condone it or hide your opinions, but I think they are probably not going to change what they are doing.

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    Doree agrees, noting that focusing on what one can control is crucial in maintaining mental health during these trying times 2.

       

    Toxic Friends

    Handling toxic friendships can be daunting, but taking a stand can lead to positive change. A listener shares their experience of breaking away from toxic friends, highlighting how one person's decision to step back can inspire others to do the same 3. and reflect on the power of collective action in friend groups and the importance of maintaining healthy relationships.

    I think that we don't have to get stuck with these people in our lives and maybe it's worth the risk.

    --- Listener

    They also recommend reading Shannon Hale's graphic novels, "Real Friends" and "Best Friends," which explore friendship dynamics and are relatable for both children and adults 3.

       

    Moving On

    Moving on from past relationships involves embracing personal growth and gratitude for lessons learned. A listener shares their journey of finding closure after a breakup, emphasizing the importance of recognizing the positive aspects of past relationships 4. and discuss how reflecting on past experiences can help set standards for future relationships.

    It's awesome that you got to experience so much love from this person. They set some really beautiful standards for how you should be treated in a relationship.

    --- Listener

    They encourage listeners to view breakups as opportunities for growth and to appreciate the love and respect they deserve 4.

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