Self Esteem and Confidence Building | The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

Competitive Spirit

Gary Vaynerchuk's competitive spirit is a driving force in his life, shaping his approach to both personal and professional challenges. He shares that his love for competition was not taught but rather an innate part of his DNA, a trait shared with his family 1. This passion for competition is not just about winning but also about the thrill of the game and the process itself. Gary explains, "I believe it's my addiction, is the process and the game, not the thing" 2.

   

Dark Side

While Gary's competitive nature has positive aspects, it also has a darker side. He candidly admits to moments when his competitiveness has led to unhealthy thoughts, such as considering firing someone after losing a game of rock-paper-scissors 3. Despite these challenges, he finds value in losing, as it fuels his desire to improve and try again. "I might have cried and been pissed and wanted to do something about it, but I wanted to play again," he reflects 2.