Gender and Empowerment

How can I maintain friendships while experiencing personal growth and change, especially if I have a tendency to leave friendships behind or struggle with finding interesting things to talk about? This question is in relation to the episode S15, Ep4 How To Fail: Florence Given on shame, sexuality and finding her voice and the clip Boundaries and Generosity, as well as the episode What I Learned In My 20's: Self Love, Boundaries, Comparison & Trusting My Intuition, and the episodes 627: Meeting the Anger Within + Taking Off Your Mask with Hannah Eden and 881: Finding Your Angle in Covert Love Triangle | Feedback Friday. Many relationships that were very good at one point faded when I moved on, started new things, or grew professionally. I feel responsible for this.