Gender Expectations

As a child, Chimamanda questioned the arbitrary rules surrounding gender, particularly the notion that girls should be shielded from certain experiences. She reflects on the absurdity of being told to bend down like a woman to clean, recognizing how deeply domesticity was tied to her identity as a girl. Despite her family's progressive views, she felt the weight of societal expectations, especially as her brother received praise for domestic tasks while her efforts went unnoticed.