Embracing Authenticity

Lashana reflects on the challenges of asserting her opinions and the fear of standing alone, particularly in group settings. She discusses the pretense often adopted in adolescence to maintain comfort for others, revealing the weight of feeling responsible for others’ emotions. Additionally, she highlights the intersection of race and class, explaining how these factors contributed to her sense of being "the other" from a young age, especially in environments like ballet that rarely celebrated her identity.