Dexa/How To Fail With Elizabeth Day

Published Feb 17, 2025

How To Date: The first date

Elizabeth Day and Mel Schilling, joined by cultural producer Ryan Lanji, delve into first date dynamics, blending humor and wisdom as they share stories, strategies, and insights on authenticity, cultural understanding, and navigating awkward moments to enhance the dating journey.

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Questions from this episode

- How do you practice positive self-talk?
  Asked by 114 people
- Can you explain more self-talk tips?
  Asked by 70 people
- How can you navigate confidence and self-worth in relationships?
  Asked by 60 people
- Why is self-awareness crucial in relationships, as discussed in episode #079: Toxic Dating Culture with Michelle Herzog and the clip The Power of Being Seen, along with the episode #213: Exploring Non-Monogamy with Emily, Dedeker, and Jase of Multiamory and the clip Unlearning Limitations?
  Asked by 32 people
- Do you have more examples of people who thought certain similarities and compatibilities were important for dating, but they ended up not being so important, as discussed in the episode #006: Anchoring Connection with Baya Voce and the clip Challenging Belief Systems?
  Asked by 22 people
- Why is self-awareness crucial in relationships, as discussed in episode #079: Toxic Dating Culture with Michelle Herzog and the clip The Power of Being Seen?
  Asked by 20 people
- Do you have more examples of people who thought certain similarities and compatibilities were important for dating, but they ended up not being so important, as discussed in the episode #337: F the (Dating) Fairy Tale with Damona Hoffman and the clip Dating Myths Debunked?
  Asked by 13 people
- Why is self-awareness crucial in relationships, as discussed in episode #079: Toxic Dating Culture with Michelle Herzog and the clip The Power of Being Seen, along with the episode #213: Exploring Non-Monogamy with Emily, Dedeker and Jase of Multiamory and the clip Unlearning Limitations?
  Asked by 12 people
- Why is self-awareness crucial in relationships, as discussed in the episode #079: Toxic Dating Culture with Michelle Herzog and the clip The Power of Being Seen?
  Asked by 11 people
- What are some tips for dating and communication?
  Asked by 10 people
- Do you have a podcast about romantic relationships?
  Asked by 10 people
- What challenges do people face in dating?
  Asked by 10 people
- Why do people get ghosted in relationships, as discussed in the episode Sex and Dating Apps | Rob Henderson | EP 193 and the clip The Dark Side of Dating Apps?
  Asked by 10 people
- How important is it to go out and date people to discover who is truly right for us in the context of the episode #001: A Little More About Me and My Journey and the clip Rethinking Love, Monogamy, and Personal Growth?
  Asked by 8 people
- Why is self-awareness crucial in relationships, as discussed in the episode #111: What Are You Tolerating? with Allyson Byrd and the clip Truth in Connection?
  Asked by 8 people

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