Published November 2023 on Spotfiy

920: Would It Defeat Her to Know Husband's a Cheater? | Feedback Friday

1. Introduction

Explore the fascinating world of insider trading and the impact of semiconductors on global power. Hear from Tom, an FBI informant who took down hundreds of people, and Chris, the author of Chipwar. Gain practical advice and critical thinking skills from their stories and insights.+

2. Uncovering Modern Day Slavery

Nathan and Lindsay, journalists from a previous episode, share a shocking story of how they helped rescue over 30 hostages from a human slavery operation. Their investigation led them to uncover the connection between cyber scams and organized crime. This powerful story highlights the importance of taking action and how a simple act of kindness can save lives.+

3. The Other Woman Dilemma

The Other Woman Dilemma:Gabriel seeks advice on whether to inform a married woman about her cheating husband, leading to a discussion on the complexities of moral responsibility and the boundaries of involvement in others' relationships.+
Revealing Infidelity:Jordan and Gabriel discuss the ethical dilemma of whether to inform a friend about her husband's infidelity, emphasizing the importance of honesty and the potential consequences of keeping secrets. They also question the role of the friend group and speculate on who might have known about the husband's marital status.+
Navigating Relationship Drama:Jordan and Gabriel discuss the complexities of dealing with a friend's infidelity, offering insights on whether to tell the spouse and the potential consequences of different approaches.+

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5. Love, Trauma, Reconnection

Love, Trauma, and Borderline:Gabriel shares his experience of being in a relationship with someone diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and the trauma it caused. He seeks advice on navigating a new relationship while dealing with past trauma and the possibility of reconnecting with his ex who claims to have changed.+
Healing from Borderline Personality Disorder:Discover the journey of healing and recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder as Jordan empathizes with a guest who shares their experiences with trauma, volatile relationships, and the hope for personal growth and transformation.+
Moving On, Toxic Relationships:Jordan and Gabriel discuss the challenges of moving on from a toxic relationship and the concept of trauma bonding. They explore the reasons behind strong feelings for someone who has caused harm and the potential risks of reengaging with an ex.+
Reconnecting with the Past:Jordan and Gabriel discuss the complexities of reconnecting with a past partner, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries and being cautious. They explore the potential for growth and change, while acknowledging the potential for repeating old patterns.+
Relationship Reflections:Gabriel and Jordan delve into the listener's patterns and emotions surrounding his past relationship and current girlfriend, urging him to examine his motivations and be open with his partner. They also discuss the significance of alcohol in both relationships, prompting further exploration.+
Love, Alcohol, and Trauma:Gabriel and Jordan discuss the significance of alcohol in relationships, sharing personal experiences and exploring the potential impact of past trauma on current dynamics.+
Relationship Reflection:Jordan and Gabriel discuss a listener's dilemma about talking to an ex and explore the deeper questions behind the desire to reconnect. They emphasize the importance of open communication and personal growth in relationships.+

6. Unconventional Love Story

Unconventional Love Story:Gabriel shares his unique relationship that started as an affair and evolved into a deep connection. He discusses the challenges they faced and the unexpected bonds they formed with each other's families.+
Navigating a Troubled Wedding:Gabriel seeks advice on attending his son's wedding where his hostile ex-spouse will be present. Jordan and Gabriel discuss the complexities of the situation, highlighting the importance of setting boundaries and managing emotions.+
Dealing with an Ex:Jordan and Gabriel discuss the challenges of dealing with a vindictive ex and offer insights on how to navigate the situation with empathy and assertiveness.+
Moving On, Finding Closure:Jordan and Gabriel discuss the importance of growth and forgiveness in moving on from a difficult divorce. They emphasize the need to stop externalizing blame and focus on personal growth. Despite potential discomfort, they encourage attending important events and not letting others' feelings hold you back.+

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8. Challenging Work Environment

Challenging Work Environment:Gabriel opens up about the challenges he faces in his space exploration job, including an overwhelming workload, lack of appreciation, and the possibility of a mass exodus. Jordan offers support and congratulations on Gabriel's recent patent, while discussing potential career options and the dilemma of starting over at almost 50 years old.+
Balancing Purpose and Sanity:Gabriel and Jordan discuss the dilemma of choosing between pursuing meaningful work that causes stress or settling for less meaningful work that brings happiness. They explore the importance of setting boundaries, evaluating personal goals, and making tough decisions for a balanced and healthy life.+
Overcoming Fear, Starting Over:Gabriel addresses the fears of losing seniority, contacts, and starting over at 50. He challenges the listener to explore the possibilities of recreating their status, rebuilding their network, and finding a new sense of purpose. Jordan highlights the importance of not being overly attached to a miserable situation and embracing change.+
Making a Big Transition:Gabriel and Jordan discuss the fear of starting over and the misconceptions around making a big transition. They emphasize the importance of staying open to possibilities and investigating beliefs to arrive at the best decision.+

9. A Delicate Dilemma

A Delicate Dilemma:Gabriel grapples with whether to intervene and inform a dying colleague's children about his true condition, while Jordan explores the boundaries of meddling in other people's lives. A thought-provoking discussion on the complexities of family dynamics and personal responsibility.+
Tough Decisions:Jordan and Gabriel discuss the moral dilemma of a coworker who discovers that their colleague is hiding a terminal illness from his children. They explore the complexities of intervening in someone's personal life, the importance of open communication within families, and the potential impact on the children's well-being.+
Family Secrets:Jordan and Gabriel discuss the complexities of family dynamics and the importance of open communication when it comes to sharing important information with loved ones. They explore the motivations behind keeping secrets and offer advice on how to approach difficult conversations within families.+

10. Outro

Learn how to build a strong network of people you know, like, and trust in order to enhance your personal and professional life. Discover valuable insights and strategies for networking effectively and authentically.+