#708 Co-parenting Through Divorce

Parenting Plans

Creating a parenting plan that addresses the medical needs of a child with type 1 diabetes is crucial during a divorce. Jacqueline Stephens Breisch emphasizes the importance of including specific terms in the parenting agreement to ensure the child's health is prioritized. She notes, "Having those working through that pre-divorce will help prevent issues post-divorce." 1 This proactive approach can prevent complications and ensure both parents are prepared to manage their child's condition effectively. Scott Benner adds that many parents may not get it right the first time, highlighting the need for adjustments and education. 1

   

Legal Insights

Navigating the legal aspects of co-parenting a child with type 1 diabetes involves understanding the intricacies of medical decision-making responsibilities. Jacqueline explains that the term "custody" has evolved into "parental responsibility," which includes decision-making and parenting time. 2 She advises that if a parenting plan lacks provisions for medical care, mediation can be a valuable first step. "If you have a media clause in your parenting agreement, then that's the first thing you should do," she suggests. 3 This ensures both parents contribute to the child's well-being and can address any disagreements without resorting to court. 4

   

Communication

Effective communication is key to successful co-parenting, especially when managing a child's type 1 diabetes. Jacqueline stresses the importance of keeping communication factual and child-focused, avoiding criticism that could put the other parent on the defensive. 5 She advises, "If those types of communications that are neutral and pleasant and child-focused are still not being taken well by your co-parent, then that's a problem with that person." 6 Scott highlights the value of having a third party review communications to ensure they are constructive and free of passive-aggressive undertones. 6