Demanding vs. Defending
Sue explains how in distressed relationships, one partner becomes demanding while the other becomes defensive. The demanding partner is actually asking "where are you?" and uses criticism and anger to get attention.In this clip
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Cracking the Code of Love with Dr. Sue Johnson
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