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Published Nov 2, 2023

Dear LK: My kids are enemies. What should I do?

Marielle Segarra and Dr. Becky Kennedy delve into the intricacies of sibling rivalry, offering strategies for parents on how to manage conflicts, validate emotions, and create a harmonious family atmosphere through understanding and effective communication.
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  • Emotion Validation

    Validating children's emotions is crucial, especially during distressing times. emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and making space for children's negative feelings, allowing them to express themselves without judgment. This approach helps children feel supported and understood, fostering a sense of connection with their parents.

    I'm just gonna listen. And then with your brother around, we're really, really gonna put a stop to that. And kids actually usually take to this because what they hear is, my mom thinks I'm a good kid, or my dad thinks I'm a good kid, actually.

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    adds that setting boundaries is also essential to protect all children involved 1.

       

    Embracing Uncertainty

    Embracing uncertainty is a valuable mindset for both parents and children. suggests that acknowledging the unknown and taking the first step is often the best approach in complex situations. This acceptance can alleviate the pressure of having all the answers and encourages a proactive attitude.

    I guess something I've benefited a lot from is like telling yourself, I don't know. And that's exactly where I should be.

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    agrees, emphasizing the importance of starting somewhere, even if the path isn't clear 2.

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