Correcting Mistakes
Lisa emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for mistakes and approaching conversations with honesty and a focus on the other person's feelings. Mel highlights the need to shift the intention from seeking personal relief to genuinely helping the other person regain confidence.In this clip
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How to Speak So That People Listen: #1 Rule for Getting the Support You Need
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I have a question about this episode How to Speak So That People Listen: #1 Rule for Getting the Support You Need and this clip Correcting Mistakes. I'm proud that I recognize I need to adjust to her behavior. Will this change help her loosen her resistance too? But now, I'm feeling like I've had a negative impression on everyone and done a horrible job this summer. I know I haven't; I'm getting a return offer. But what is this feeling of self-doubt?
How can I work on not being so hard on myself about the mistakes I made in the past, as discussed in the episode "Want to Feel Better About Yourself? Try this Right Now | Melissa Urban on Women of Impact" and the clip "Healing Trauma"? I wish I didn't make those mistakes, but then I probably wouldn't grow as a person.
What does it mean when you realize you may have been making a mistake or taken criticism in a negative or defensive way on a project, as discussed in the episode "Heather Monahan - Top 50 Keynote Speaker & Best-Selling Author | How to Create Confidence" and the clip "Breaking the Silence"? I'm also frustrated about how I acted—responsive and thankful but also annoyed. Kaitlyn suggested I do something differently, but overall, I have a weird relationship with this one manager at work. I'm going to change how I've been acting. I'm just an intern, but it's not obvious; everyone else loves me, and I love them. It's just this one person, and I need to change my attitude. I'm proud that I recognize I need to adjust to her behavior. Will this change help her loosen her resistance too? But now, I'm feeling like I've had a negative impression on everyone and done a horrible job this summer. I know I haven't; I'm getting a return offer. But what is this feeling of self-doubt?