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Published May 13, 2024

The Presence of Absence | The Minimalists Ep. 443

Explore the concept of space hoarding and the value of embracing absence, delve into sharing and generosity with a focus on personal boundaries, and gain insights on how OCD can be a strength, all wrapped up in engaging conversations on minimalism and personal growth.
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  • Sharing Boundaries

    The Minimalists tackle the question of what personal items or spaces they are unwilling to share. uses the example of a museum's intentional empty space to illustrate the concept of 'presence of absence' and how it can be misunderstood as space hoarding 1. adds that one should never share anything that compromises their capacity to share, quoting Dr. Phyllis Hubbard:

    Give from your excess, not from your essence.

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    They also discuss how sharing can sometimes enhance relationships, but it's essential to recognize when it might not be beneficial 2.

       

    Setting Boundaries

    Establishing boundaries is crucial for mental health and maintaining relationships. explains that the difficulty of fulfilling a request can vary greatly depending on individual circumstances, emphasizing the need for empathy and understanding 3. Joshua Millburn4.

    Every hoarder has their reasons. Some people hoard out of fear, some out of trauma. Most reasons deserve empathy.

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    They highlight that understanding these nuances can help in setting and respecting boundaries.

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