Man Points Dilemma
Men often feel they must accumulate "man points" through achievements before they can express vulnerability. This societal pressure creates a paradox where those who need support the most may be the least likely to receive it. Additionally, broad advice to men about behavior may not reach those who truly need it, as the ones who would benefit from assertiveness often disregard such guidance.In this clip
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