Self Compassion in Relationships
Emily emphasizes the importance of self compassion and how it can be challenging for those with trauma histories. She suggests starting with compassion for others to build that muscle before turning it inward. The conversation also highlights the societal pressures on men, who often lack guidance on how to be supportive partners and navigate difficult emotions, making relationships even more complex.In this clip
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