Guilt in Relationships
The conversation highlights the emotional complexities of showing affection in polyamorous relationships, particularly the guilt that can arise when one partner receives romantic gestures. It challenges the notion of fairness, suggesting that love should not be a competition or a tallying system, but rather a spontaneous expression of care for each individual partner. The discussion also critiques advice that emphasizes strict fairness, advocating instead for a more compassionate approach to relationship dynamics.In this clip
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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
443 - Why Aren't You Being Fair? Exploring Aggressive Fairness in Polyamory
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