Rethinking Fairness
The conversation challenges the idea that a complex system of points can create fairness in relationships, suggesting instead that focusing on shared values and fulfillment is more beneficial. Emphasizing quality over quantity, it highlights the importance of feeling good about the distribution of responsibilities rather than strictly adhering to a 50/50 split. Bias in measuring contributions is also acknowledged, reinforcing that subjective experiences matter more than rigid metrics.In this clip
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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
443 - Why Aren't You Being Fair? Exploring Aggressive Fairness in Polyamory
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