Apologies and Control
Kitty shares her perspective on the importance of making amends in recovery, emphasizing that understanding one's mistakes is crucial for genuine apologies. She reflects on the complexities of navigating relationships while sober, advocating for personal responsibility and the need to let go of expectations regarding others' responses. Ultimately, the focus remains on self-control and personal growth in the journey of healing.In this clip
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