Navigating Relationship Agreements
Effective communication is crucial for establishing solid agreements in polyamorous relationships. Differentiation, understanding needs versus desires, and addressing conflict are foundational elements that promote safety and security. Leaning into curiosity when faced with differing perspectives can enhance relationship dynamics and foster deeper connections.In this clip
From this podcast
Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
340 - Polyamory and Therapy (with Martha Kauppi)
Related Questions
Is the approach you've described a hallmark of a healthy relationship?
I feel this goes back to what we discussed before: I get to decide what I want, and you get to decide what will make you happy. If we do not communicate what we want to each other, are we denying the other person the opportunity to consider whether that would make them happy too? Is it our responsibility to moderate expressing our needs, wants, or desires, or is it our responsibility to only act in alignment with our own and to manage those that the other can’t or won’t meet together, with respect and without creating resentment?
Does this sound like a healthy relationship?