Standards and Relationships
The discussion highlights the importance of maintaining personal standards in dating, despite external criticism of being "too picky." Many share that their experiences have led them to confidently assert that their standards are just right. Additionally, those with more experience in non-monogamous relationships often find it easier to refine their expectations, leading to healthier connections.In this clip
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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
328 - Relationship Standards: Too High? Too Low?
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Why is having a high standard important?
I feel that men have to work hard to gain social status and financial stability to attract women, while women are pursued regardless of their qualities. It seems like there are often many men interested in one woman, giving her the power to choose. I'm frustrated by the idea that men have to chase after women and navigate complex social games to gain their interest. I love women and don't want to have a negative mindset, but sometimes I can't help but feel this way.
Is my thinking accurate that men have to work hard to gain social status and financial stability to attract women, while women are pursued regardless of their qualities? It seems like there are often many men interested in one woman, giving her the power to choose. I'm frustrated by the idea that men have to chase after women and navigate complex social games to gain their interest. I love women and don't want to have a negative mindset, but sometimes I can't help but feel this way.