Understanding Harm Dynamics
Christy explores the complex interplay between harm and abuse, emphasizing that not all harm constitutes abuse. She highlights the challenges faced by both survivors and abusers, particularly how narratives can be weaponized in relationships. The conversation also touches on the nuances of trauma responses and the importance of recognizing patterns over isolated incidents, especially within the context of LGBTQ relationships.In this clip
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