Constructive Criticism Dilemma
The conversation delves into the nuances of constructive criticism, highlighting how the belief in having the "right way" to do things can lead to belittlement and patronizing behavior. Dedeker candidly shares her struggle with this mindset, emphasizing the importance of recognizing multiple approaches and allowing others the space to find their own methods. Jase adds that those who often impose their views may see themselves as logical or skillful, which can complicate communication in relationships.In this clip
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What does it mean when you realize you may have been making a mistake or taking criticism in a negative or defensive way on a project, as discussed in episode 225: Kim Scott | Care Personally, Challenge Directly with Radical Candor, and the clip Mastery vs. Adaptability?
What does it mean when you realize you may have been making a mistake or taking criticism in a negative or defensive way on a project, as discussed in episode 225: Kim Scott | Care Personally, Challenge Directly with Radical Candor and the clip Mastery vs. Adaptability?
I'm also frustrated about how I acted—responsive and thankful but also annoyed. Kaitlyn suggested I do something differently, but overall, I have a weird relationship or connection with one manager at work. I'm going to change how I've been acting. I'm just an intern, but it's not obvious; everyone else loves me, and I love them. It's just this one person, and I need to change my attitude. Will this change help her loosen her resistance too?