Rethinking Sexual Value
The conversation delves into the complexities of sexual consent and the underlying societal pressures that can impact personal worth. Both Dedeker and Emily explore how internalized beliefs about desirability and performance can distort one's sense of value in relationships. They challenge the notion that a partner's interest in sex is a reflection of one's worth, emphasizing that self-worth extends far beyond sexual desirability.In this clip
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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
211 - Thinking Critically about Sex Positivity and Sex Negativity
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