Dexa/Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Fighting Dirty Defined

Fighting dirty often stems from learned behaviors that may not be productive. It’s crucial to recognize the signs of unclear communication, aggression, and disempowerment in arguments. By understanding these patterns, individuals can work towards more constructive and intimate discussions, moving beyond vague complaints to specific concerns that foster resolution.

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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
210 - Take the Fight Out of Your Fights
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- What should I do if my partner doesn't think it might be unhealthy or unproductive to allow the hurt partner to have their "moment in the spotlight" while discussing their hurt or concerns? For example, if I come to him with something I'm sad about, he responds with comments about how I do that too, or how I do XYZ and it hurts him, or else he will bring up how he hasn't healed from the dinner with the ex. He also seems to consider every disagreement or discussion about relationship issues that need a compromise as a "fight," and he often gets very angry, starts yelling, and tells me to leave the room.