Unapologetic Relationships
Phoebe shares her unapologetic approach to discussing her relationship style, emphasizing the importance of self-assurance and not seeking validation from others. She challenges the notion that non-monogamous relationships inherently lead to more pain, asserting that anyone can get hurt regardless of relationship structure. Ultimately, she encourages embracing one's choices and letting go of the need for external approval.In this clip
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