Embracing Neutrality
Alex shares his longing for deeper connections with male metamors, reflecting on the complexities of non-voluntary relationships. Jase introduces the idea of maintaining a healthy neutrality in relationships, suggesting that it's okay to feel indifferent rather than overly emotional. The conversation also touches on the intriguing concept of "squashing out the sex," prompting listeners to examine their feelings about partners' other relationships and the emotional implications behind them.In this clip
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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
185 - Can Men Get Along with their Metamours?
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I feel that men have to work hard to gain social status and financial stability to attract women, while women are pursued regardless of their qualities. It seems like there are often many men interested in one woman, giving her the power to choose. I'm frustrated by the idea that men have to chase after women and navigate complex social games to gain their interest. I love women and don't want to have a negative mindset, but sometimes I can't help but feel this way. Can you provide some insights on this perspective?
I feel that men have to work hard to gain social status and financial stability to attract women, while women are pursued regardless of their qualities. It seems like there are often many men interested in one woman, giving her the power to choose. I'm frustrated by the idea that men have to chase after women and navigate complex social games to gain their interest. I love women and don't want to have a negative mindset, but sometimes I can't help but feel this way. Can you provide some insight into this perspective?
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