Rethinking Desires
The conversation explores how societal programming influences our desires, particularly regarding relationships and parenting. Jase highlights the pressure to seize opportunities for sex once they become available, while Emily and Dedeker discuss the expectations placed on women to want children and commitment. This episode challenges listeners to question the traditional narratives surrounding monogamy and family life, encouraging a deeper examination of personal wants versus societal norms.In this clip
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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
117 - Why Do You Want What You Want?
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I have a question about the episode #213: Exploring Non-Monogamy with Emily, Dedeker and Jase of Multiamory and the clip Challenging Relationship Assumptions. I feel that men have to work hard to gain social status and financial stability to attract women, while women are pursued regardless of their qualities. It seems like there are often many men interested in one woman, giving her the power to choose. I'm frustrated by the idea that men have to chase after women and navigate complex social games to gain their interest. I love women and don't want to have a negative mindset, but sometimes I can't help but feel this way. Can you provide some insight into this perspective?
I have a question about the episode #213: Exploring Non-Monogamy with Emily, Dedeker and Jase of Multiamory and the clip Challenging Relationship Assumptions. I feel that men have to work hard to gain social status and financial stability to attract women, while women are pursued regardless of their qualities. It seems like there are often many men interested in one woman, giving her the power to choose. I'm frustrated by the idea that men have to chase after women and navigate complex social games to gain their interest. I love women and don't want to have a negative mindset, but sometimes I can't help but feel this way. How can I shift my perspective on this issue?
Can you provide some insight into the perspective that men have to work hard to gain social status and financial stability to attract women, while women are pursued regardless of their qualities, as discussed in the episode #213: Exploring Non-Monogamy with Emily, Dedeker and Jase of Multiamory and the clip Challenging Relationship Assumptions?