Embracing Sex Positivity
Sex Nerd Sandra discusses her journey as a sex educator, emphasizing the importance of normalizing sexuality and reducing shame. With a humorous approach, she aims to restore people's basic understanding of human sexuality, countering the negative messages often encountered in society. The conversation highlights the need for a more open and accepting view of sexual pleasure and interest.In this clip
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I'm currently exploring my sexuality more deeply, especially around the topic of solo sex.