Rethinking Relationship Rules
The conversation delves into the implications of establishing rules in relationships, highlighting how they often stem from negative assumptions about a partner's intentions. Both Emily and Jase reflect on the troubling nature of these rules, emphasizing that they can inadvertently signal a lack of trust. Ultimately, the discussion encourages a reevaluation of how we approach behavior control in relationships, advocating for open communication over imposed restrictions.In this clip
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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
005 - Fundamentals: Rules vs. Agreements (ft. Boundaries)
Related Questions
Is it OK for a partner to control who the other person chooses as their friends, especially if the opposed partner feels insecure about their partner wanting to stay friends with exes? Doesn't that indicate a lack of trust in the partner's ability to make good, loyal choices based on their values and integrity? Isn't it controlling for a partner to believe they can resolve their insecurities through control over the other partner's friendships and free time?
Why would someone have a desire to control in relationships?