Rules and Reactance
Controlling rules can inadvertently push partners away rather than draw them closer, as they trigger a cognitive bias known as reactance. When individuals feel their freedom is restricted, they often respond with resistance or anger, even if it's not consciously recognized. This dynamic can manifest in everyday situations, illustrating how the way requests are framed can impact compliance and emotional reactions.In this clip
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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
005 - Fundamentals: Rules vs. Agreements (ft. Boundaries)
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