124 - The Dating Advice Girl Talks Polyamory

Real Life

Meeting people in real life, especially within polyamorous communities, can be a rewarding experience. Erin Tillman suggests attending meetup groups or events related to personal interests, such as knitting or archery, to find like-minded individuals 1. She emphasizes the importance of approaching these gatherings with the intention of making friends rather than evaluating potential partners 2. This mindset not only helps in forming genuine connections but also ensures a more enjoyable experience.

You're there doing something fun that you enjoy. And that's really what it should be about.

--- Erin Tillman

By engaging in activities you love, you naturally meet others who share your passions, creating opportunities for meaningful relationships.

   

Community

Community events play a crucial role in forming connections and relationships. Erin Tillman highlights the importance of facing rejection and continuing to engage with people despite setbacks 3. She believes that success in relationships often comes from perseverance and openness to new experiences.

The people who are successful just felt the fear and did it anyway, or had the rejection and went through it anyway.

--- Erin Tillman

Additionally, Erin stresses the value of authentic interactions, encouraging face-to-face meetings to truly understand each other's energy and intentions 4. This approach fosters deeper connections and helps individuals navigate the complexities of modern dating.