262 - Making a Polyamorous Dating App

Relationship Choices

Amanda Wilson and David Epstein emphasize the importance of allowing users to specify their relationship preferences on #open. They believe that by enabling users to state exactly what they are looking for, whether it's a casual hookup or a long-term relationship, the app fosters a more authentic and transparent dating experience 1. Amanda calls this a 'relationship choice approach,' which helps users find like-minded individuals more effectively 1. David adds that the app's flexibility in relationship labels and preferences is continually evolving to meet user needs 2.

If you are just looking for somebody to hook up with this weekend, and that's the only reason, you should be able to say that, because there's probably somebody else who just wants to hook up for this weekend and never talk to you again, too.

--- Amanda Wilson

This approach not only benefits users but also enhances the overall functionality of other dating platforms by promoting honesty and clarity 1.

   

Breaking Stereotypes

The app #open aims to normalize various relationship structures and sexual orientations, challenging societal norms and stereotypes. Dedeker Winston highlights the resistance faced from mainstream platforms like Facebook, which have denied advertising for the app due to its sex-positive and non-monogamous focus 3. David Epstein explains that their privacy policy, which prioritizes user data protection, is not attractive to traditional venture capitalists, making it difficult to secure funding 3. Amanda Wilson shares that despite these challenges, they remain committed to creating a safe and inclusive space for all users 4.

Facebook really seems to be the leader for all the other companies because we have been denied by Facebook, which is also Instagram and Reddit, Snapchat, Twitter.

--- Amanda Wilson

Their efforts to build a community-centric platform reflect their dedication to serving an underserved audience 3.

   

Community Feedback

Community feedback has been instrumental in shaping #open and its features. David Epstein recounts the positive responses they have received at various events, where users express gratitude for the platform's ability to help them explore and express their identities 5. Amanda Wilson notes that the app's design is heavily influenced by user input, ensuring it meets the diverse needs of its community 6. They have implemented community guidelines and a human touch in moderation to maintain a safe and respectful environment 6.

People come up to Amanda and hug her and thank her for the ability to express themselves.

--- David Epstein

This community-centric approach has led to a diverse and engaged user base, making #open a unique and valuable platform 5.