196 - Am I Still Polyamorous If...

Ethics

Ethical polyamory requires a deep commitment to introspection and intentionality. Emily Matlack emphasizes that being ethical in polyamorous relationships involves making thoughtful choices that consider the impact on all involved, even if it means protecting a primary relationship 1. Jase Lindgren highlights the distinction between ethical and consensual non-monogamy, noting that ethics should be a goal rather than an assumption 2.

If you're doing things in an ethical manner with a lot of thought and a lot of introspection behind them, then generally, if you call yourself polyamorous, then you are.

--- Emily Matlack

This approach challenges the notion that ethical behavior is inherent to any relationship style, urging individuals to strive for ethical non-monogamy actively.

   

Dynamics

Understanding the impact of relationship dynamics is crucial in polyamory. Dedeker Winston explains that actions within relationships have far-reaching effects, even when no one is actively dating 3. She stresses the importance of recognizing these impacts to maintain stability and clear communication.

It's about evaluating what that impact is.

--- Dedeker Winston

Jase Lindgren adds that setting boundaries is essential, even when partners share similar relationship philosophies 4. This ensures personal safety and comfort, highlighting the need for clear boundaries in non-monogamous relationships.