448 - A Polyamory Devotional: Conversation with Evita Sawyers

Finding Voice

Evita Sawyers emphasizes the importance of self-discovery and vocalizing one's needs in relationships. She believes that individuals often rely on external voices to dictate their feelings and actions, but true security in relationships comes from understanding one's own answers. Evita encourages readers to engage in self-reflection to find their own voice and answers, rather than simply adopting others' beliefs 1.

I want you to find yourself in these pages, not find me.

--- Evita Sawyers

This approach is reflected in her book, which includes open-ended questions designed to prompt introspection and personal growth 2.

   

Values

Exploring personal values is crucial in non-traditional relationships, according to Evita. She views polyamory as a deeply spiritual practice that requires intentional reflection on one's identity and values. This intentionality helps individuals navigate their relationships with integrity and authenticity 3.

Polyamory, for me, is a very deeply spiritual practice.

--- Evita Sawyers

Evita's book offers daily prompts to aid in this exploration, allowing readers to develop their own thoughts and feelings about their relationships 4.

   

Divorce Impact

Evita shares her personal journey through divorce and its impact on her growth and polyamorous practices. She describes the finality of her divorce as surreal but acknowledges it as a catalyst for personal transformation. Moving across the country and starting anew has allowed her to redefine her identity and approach to relationships 5.

Life is short, and I want to be bold and courageous in love.

--- Evita Sawyers

Evita emphasizes the importance of trusting oneself in new relationships, recognizing that each experience is unique and an opportunity for growth 6.