114 - Privilege and Polyamory

Attractiveness

Societal perceptions of attractiveness significantly influence privilege, especially regarding body type. Jase Lindgren highlights that while human attraction varies, traditional standards of beauty still dominate, often leading to shame for those attracted to non-conventional body types 1. This societal bias can create a hierarchy of attractiveness, impacting individuals' experiences in relationships and beyond. Dedeker Winston notes that sexual privilege also plays a role, with those desiring sex often having more dating opportunities than asexual individuals 2.

   

Norms

Traditional beliefs about attractiveness persist, affecting perceptions in modern relationships. Emily Matlack observes that ageism is prevalent, with youth often equated to beauty and privilege, particularly in areas like Los Angeles 3. This bias extends to living situations, where societal norms can limit personal freedom and expression. Jase Lindgren adds that attractiveness significantly impacts opportunities, such as employment, highlighting the pervasive nature of these societal norms 4.