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Fatherhood Tips

Shaan Puri and Sam Parr share practical fatherhood advice, focusing on the early stages of parenting. Sam emphasizes the "five S's" technique for calming newborns, which involves swaddling tightly, holding them on their side, and shushing loudly. He notes, "When they taught me how to do it, I'm like, that's going to hurt the baby's ear. And they're like, no, this is what they're used to hearing." 1 Shaan adds that mental preparation is crucial, likening it to holding a dumbbell while managing daily tasks, highlighting the physical and mental demands of fatherhood 2.

   

Emotional Phases

The emotional journey into fatherhood is marked by distinct phases, as described by Shaan. Initially, there's excitement about having kids, followed by doubt and panic during pregnancy, and finally, a deep connection that develops over time. He explains, "You think it's supposed to come with the baby's born, but it will not for most people it comes like 12 to 18 months later." 3 Sam shares that many fathers don't immediately fall in love with their newborns, comparing the early relationship to having a "roommate that you enjoy." 1 This gradual bonding process is common, with many fathers eventually wishing they had started sooner.