Frances Kissling — What Is Good in the Position of the Other

Mutual Respect

Frances Kissling emphasizes the importance of engaging with those who hold opposing views, not to find common ground, but to understand and respect their perspectives. She believes that true dialogue involves acknowledging the values and concerns of others, even if they differ from our own. "I have learned, I have changed my views on some aspects of abortion based upon having a deeper understanding of the values and concerns of people who disagree with me," Frances shares 1. This approach fosters a deeper understanding and humanization of those on the opposite side of the debate 2.

   

Polarization

The abortion debate is fraught with polarization, and Frances Kissling observes that common ground is often elusive but necessary. She notes that both sides of the debate tend to focus on singular values, which complicates finding a balanced approach. "I think fetuses have value, and I don't think you can make the fetus invisible in the abortion decision," Frances explains, highlighting the complexity of the issue 3. Her insights suggest that addressing the multifaceted nature of abortion could lead to more productive conversations 4.