Kindness Within
Fiachra emphasizes the importance of treating ourselves with the same kindness we would offer a child, especially during times of pain. He highlights that negative behaviors often stem from inner hurt, suggesting that by approaching others with empathy, we not only help them but also alleviate our own suffering. This shift in perspective can lead to a more compassionate and understanding world.In this clip
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