Intentions and Presence
Chase explores the importance of understanding our intentions in relationships, especially when conflicts arise. He highlights how addressing underlying feelings can lead to deeper connections and resolution. The conversation emphasizes the value of being present and allowing relationships to unfold naturally, rather than constantly seeking to fix or solve issues.In this clip
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Additionally, how should I handle my relationship with one manager at work who rarely gives me the space to explain and often asserts herself in the middle of presentations? I'm frustrated because I acted both responsively and annoyingly. Kaitlyn suggested I do something differently. I'm proud that I recognize I need to adjust to her behavior. Will changing how I've been acting help her loosen her resistance too?
Can you explain the concept that when you get into a fight with your spouse, you should ask what the goal is and that it's about connection, as mentioned by Jordan Peterson in your episode with him, in the context of the episode Working from Anywhere, Goals, Impact and Freelancing | Eva Zahrawi Ruiz | Beyond Coding Podcast #122 and the clip Understanding Intentions?
I'm also frustrated about how I acted—responsive and thankful but also annoyed—when Kaitlyn suggested I do something differently. Overall, I have a weird relationship or connection with this one manager at work. I'm going to change how I've been acting. I'm just an intern, but it's not obvious; everyone else loves me, and I love them. It's just this one person, and I need to change my attitude. She rarely gives me the space to explain and often asserts herself in the middle of presentations without letting me continue. It's very different from everyone else there. While it's useful in some ways, it's also frustrating. I'm proud that I recognize I need to adjust to her behavior. Will this change help her loosen her resistance too?