Intent vs. Impact
The struggle between intention and impact is a common issue in relationships. It's crucial to recognize that even unintentional actions can cause pain, and acknowledging this is the first step toward resolution. By giving partners the benefit of the doubt and understanding their backgrounds, couples can foster healthier communication and empathy during conflicts.In this clip
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My wife and I recently listened to your podcast with host Terry Real. We enjoyed the podcast, even with a few "I told you so" moments. In relation to resolving a marital battle, Terry recommended that the husband, "the man," say, "You're upset. I am sorry I hurt you. What can I do to help you?" My wife had two issues with this. First, she felt this was condescending. Second, she believes it lacked an explanation of what happens when the man does this but doesn't follow through the next time. She believes the man should say, "You're upset. I am sorry I hurt you. What can I do to help myself?" What are your thoughts on this?
Can you explain the concept that when you get into a fight with your spouse, you should ask what the goal is and that it's about connection, as mentioned by Jordan Peterson in your episode with him, in the context of the episode Working from Anywhere, Goals, Impact and Freelancing | Eva Zahrawi Ruiz | Beyond Coding Podcast #122 and the clip Understanding Intentions?
Can you explain the concept that when you get in a fight with your spouse, you should ask what the goal is and that it's about connection, as mentioned by Jordan Peterson in your episode with him, in the context of the episode Working from Anywhere, Goals, Impact and Freelancing | Eva Zahrawi Ruiz | Beyond Coding Podcast #122 and the clip Understanding Intentions?